Girl asks me to go on a 1week cruise. She three times told me not to try any "funny business" like touching her or kissing her because it would ruin her time, and she would elbow me and pepper sprayed me if I tried.
We have known each other for 7 years, went to different schools but would work in same place during vacations. Always stayed great friends. Most who have worked with us would say we'd end up together
I like her and would definitely try to seduce / charm her, as a man would with a woman he's attracted to.
What confuses me is why would she not want to go with someone else. Perhaps a female or a guy who she is open to romantically connecting with?
Most Helpful Girl
I am a girl who has probably done something simular to this. I recently just realised that many guys dont like the notion of just being friends with a girl they enjoy spending time with... And I think that weird.
I can talk to a attractive guy and enjoy there company. I personally value a long term platonic relationship with a human being as it is good spiritually as opposed to the messiness that becomes a boy/girl relationship.
Many girls feel like this. Its not to reject a guy or there not good enough or anything. Perhaps they appreciate you as a person and company...
I dont think many guys get that.
It sounds like she enjoys you as a person and perhaps focuses on her work at the moment.1