There's a girl I'm interested in that goes to the same church as me at home and I'm getting to know her throughout this summer and shows interest in me as well.
At home we live right down the street from each other, but in college we live 3 hours away from each other. We also have many mutual friends.
I know distance relationship happen, but under what circumstances.
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Most Helpful Girl
If the connection is there and it's meant to be, of course it can work out. Three hours really isn't that far (if we're talking about driving). If you keep in close contact and you see each other whenever possible, the relationship will only continue to grow. It may be difficult at times, and both of you will need to be willing to sacrifice potential college relationships, but in the end it may be worth it. You both need to have a talk and discuss ground rules and whether or not you really want to pursue it or if you want to hold off on it and try it when the circumstances are better (this obviously comes with other risks such as one of you falling for someone else). I would see how the summer plays out before committing to a long distance relationship... but yes it can work out.1