I know I shouldn't ask because asking won't help my anxiety but I'm still wondering. I had lunch with my ex today and the signals were so mixed that I'm just not sure. First of all she asked me out and bailed last week then apologized and asked me out again. I told her a lie that I was busy then came back and told her I was lying and asked her out. She said she wasn't mad. But talking was Spotty. I must've said something right because by the end of the week she was setting up the date no bailing this time she even called before. She wore gym shorts and a T-shirt but asked me if it was okay before she came. It was hot and honestly I didn't care. When I got there she had gotten her card stuck in her car door somehow and as I was trying to look and help she kept pushing her butt into me. Throughout the lunch things were great we talked we laughed things were good. But she was texting. She says it was her mom I didn't question it. She tried to see if I thought the waitress was cute I dodged the question. She started talking about her mom asking if she had a boyfriend and made it seem like she was single at first but I didn't respond. Then later she brought up her boyfriend. Now normally i'd say red flag but in the past there had been times she hid her current boyfriend from me and I got pissed and bailed. So she may just be trying to be honest. We've been on and of for 4 years (my fault) and we were always on no contact during the summer. I mentioned this and she admitted she was sad about me leaving so often. I tried to avoid talking about the past for now. We finished and went outside and talked for another hour. She didn't mention her boyfriend much other than that he was a bartender and she was illegally getting free alcohol. She hugged me goodbye twice. The first one was friendly full body contact. The second had a clear I really missed you feel to it. It's clear she wants to see me much more but I'm not sure if I'm just a friend or fuck buddy or what.
Does she want me back as a friend or something more?
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Sorry but she sounds like a bit of a tease. Avoid her and move on with your life.
Or say you're now dating a gorgeous girl and see what her reaction is. If she's genuinely happy for you then she's just a friend. If she gets a bit weird over it then she's definitely a tease. If you're not careful she'll break your heart too.0
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