This girl and I became friends at work rather quickly but she's in a relationship so it made things awkward and hard between us. It was mostly just small talk but her and I would walk together almost every single day and talk. She didn't do this with anyone else so I was confused. The thing is we'd walk together everyday one week, then she'd disappear on me the next. This would frustrate me so I began to ignore her then she'd come running back and we'd repeat the cycle over again. I occasionally talked about other girls being hot when I know she could hear. So over time I thought she might like my buddy too because I'd see her flip her hair and smile at him occasionally. She did this right in front of me a few times and sometimes would watch me while she did it. This would make me so mad. I paid less attention to her and periodically ignored her. I noticed over time it looked like she was leaving like right after my buddy everyday. Like one minute after him down the stairs no matter what time he left early or late. I'd watch from the breakroom and never saw them thing only her coming out as he was getting in car. Figured she wanted his attention or something. Around Christmas time I decided to ignore her hardcore and was cold to her. I could tell she was off with me and pissed. My buddy tells me that she has been following him out everyday and they are walking and talking like we used to. He even said it was creeping him out. Why did she do this? Also, why did he exaggerate?
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I'd say she needs to feel wanted. You said she's in a relationship right? Maybe she's not getting enough attention from him so she tried getting it from you. The times where she disappeared on you she might have been trying to patch things with her current boyfriend. When it didn't work out she came back to you. After a few times in the cycle she needed more attention and started getting it from you and your friend. I guess she was pissed at you because she wasn't getting the attention from you she needed. Now it seems that because of that she's gone full stalker on your friend. This whole ordeal could be because her boyfriend isn't giving her want she needs.1
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