So this guy put his number in my phone a few weeks back and we've been texting every since. He always starts the conversations, and he replies really fast. Like within the minute. He's good at keeping conversations going and doesn't just let them die, but we hardly ever talk about anything deep. With other guys I've talked to I've been able to talk about music and snowboarding, two of my greatest passions. He also isn't very attractive. This is where my problem comes in: He's really nice and fun to talk to and we haven't hung out yet (he's trying really hard to make it work to meet up, he lives an hour away, we're going to hang out this week) but I'm sure he'd be fun to hang out with. I just am not physically attracted to him, he's not that cute. I don't want to be shallow, but honestly it does bug me. I can't see myself kissing him or walk around calling him my boyfriend when I don't find him that attractive. Should I stop talking to him? If I do, how do I let him down nicely?
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thees no need to go further than friendship, if he does try to take it farther friendzone him, but dont just stop talking to him. that would be unnecessary and hurtful to him so maybe give obvious signs you dont wanna be more, but still talk to him and hang with him. no problem in that1
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