I was on Tinder and I'm really bad at trying to pick up girls. She liked my pic so I messaged her this.
"I wanna be honest. I'm sure you have a bunch of guys talking to you, trying to get your attention. But can you please tell me. What can I do that will get a beautiful girl like you to notice some average joe like me?"
She only started talking 1 worded responses. I basically told her I knew it was going nowhere. I asked her what I needed to work on and she said "Your game". Is she right? My father always told me I had none and now that an actual female told me, I feel so low. I just wanna find a girl to be with. I've never experienced just holding a woman in my arms. What can I do?
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Don't mine yourself down, first, and second, don't *ever* ask the person you're trying to flirt with how to flirt with them; it ruins the entire game, since you're basically asking them "Hey, how do I win?"
The whole point is to play. You think she's pretty? If she liked your pic, she may think you're hot. So why do you tell her you're an average guy? There is no average, and you need to know what defines you; how do you spend your free time, what do you love doing, what you'd like to see in a prospective partner, etc.
Basically, show the ladies you have a life, and a personality, besides the part that's currently crushing over them.
Short answer : be someone you'd fall in love with :p0