I feel I am acting strange. For example, I have met one or two girls I liked enough to get their phone numbers. But after I kind of just stop thinking about them, maybe dwelling on my ex. (It was a bad break up - one of those relationships everyone told me to move on. Girls like me a lot, but I can be too nice - and, in this case too honest maybe?)
Then when I do see these new girls again, who I know I like and am attracted to, I have a big urge to say something like 'I am so sorry for not calling for a whole week, 2 weeks etc., it's not because I don't like you, but I am just completely messed up and don't want to use you.' (The dumb thing is that not calling for a while makes them like me more!) Or should I just smile and nod my head to whatever? In the past, I have had the tendency to come over as a schitzoid... want to avoid this...
- Be honest and say how you feelVote A
- She doesn't need to hear your baggage, she needs to feel specialVote B
- See as many girls as possible to get over your exVote C
- Don't see any girls at all until you get over your exVote D
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No , just don't. If you feel like you still have feelings for your ex then tell your gf0