We've been together a while and it's always hurt my feelings that he stands around and just watches women walking by. He talks about how hot they are and what he'd do to them sexually etc. I overhear it all the time because we work together and he talks with the guys.
Sometimes I'll walk in next to a girl and he doesn't even notice me, he just stares at the girl. I could be standing next to a girl and he doesn't even look at me because he's too busy looking at her.
I really hate myself now. I don't feel attractive at all and I feel incredibly sad.
I keep thinking that it's best that I break up with him because when he walks in the room the first thing I notice is him. And he doesn't even look at me.
I'm a lot younger than him, and I get hit on a lot. But I care a lot that he doesn't notice me.
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Honestly, it's possible he doesn't even get that he's making you feel that way. That fact alone shows that he's pretty inconsiderate and I wouldn't blame you for breaking up with him just for that. But, if you want to be super tolerant, you can let him know how that makes you feel, and if he says something like "who cares" or blames you for being sensitive or something, then my advice would be to definitely dump him because that shows that it's worse than him not realizing what he was doing: it shows he doesn't even care about your feelings.3