So I've just turned sixteen like less than a week ago and have been allowed to date ever since I turned fifteen. Since then I have had over eight boyfriends but none of them have lasted more than a month and a half. I'm absolutely guy crazy! Like I can't help it at all but I just like every guy who is attractive/nice/likes me even in the slightest. No I'm not desperate-it just happens.
How do I decide whether or not I'm dating them for the right reasons? How do I make the relationship last longer? How do I be a better judge of character? Is playing hard to get good or bad? How do I do that because I do the opposite? How do I say no? And most importantly how do I not rush into the relationship?
Thank you in advance.
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I think you need to have a life of your own, hobbies, activities, sports... seek what you want to do
You're still young and immature to find love.. don't take it to the heart, it applies to us all..
But when you have those feelings, its normal for teenagers to feel that way and just rush into things... and don't play games, me honest and straight forward, and give things time and you will get everything you want... and how do you say no, just simply say no.. you will feel in control of yourself, and not desperate.
Don't rush, or else, they will use you, trust me, a lot of guys use girls like you for your innocence and naivety, to take advantage of, if you know what I mean... Don't give yourself and your body away that easily for some guy you just met, even if you knew him for months, people change, never take someone for granted.. or you will regret it... take care of yourself, and everything will come in the right time.. but now, just observe and learn.
You can ignore my opinion, and you can see it for yourself and choose the hard way..
A friend of mine, when she was 15, she was so innocent and kind and just want to please anyone.. she had one of those boyfriends, and gave herself to him, and she got pregnant at that young age, and where is he now... ? a beautiful child without a father.
Life is not about having boyfriends, girlfriends and all that crap.. its about you ! live it right, for yourself.. do the things that will make you happy, achieve what you want to achieve... you want to take part of fashion? go for it.. seek where you see yourself.. and all that you're thinking about will come later.1
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