This girl that I'm currently messing around were trying to figure out what to call what we were doing. I suggested a summer fling for fun but she said that "even for fun, a fling is a little heartless"
What do you think she means?
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It's hard to tell her intent without knowing more about her. My guess is that she's more into you than you're into her... and therefore she's likely disappointed that you only think of her as a fling. Meaning... she might have hopes that more would develop from the fun you're having.
Being heartless implies that you're not taking into consideration her feelings, or the feelings of someone else. For example, are either of you in another serious relationship?
That's my best guess. :D
When all else fails, you can ask her. I mean, if you're getting naked then there's not really much you should worry about sharing. You should both be pretty open and vulnerable to each other by now.