Is it possible to have that right man/lady in your life at the wrong time in your life? Would that be the reason for a break up? You wanted it to work but at this time in your life you found your just not ready for what ever reason?
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Yup. I met my boyfriend when we were young. It was the wrong time. We wanted so badly for it to be the right time, and we fought for it but it didn't work. When we were together in person, things were awesome. When we were apart we were reducing each other to tears.
This went on for YEARS. Then suddenly, one day, it WAS the right time, and we went on a date "just to catch up." The date started at 6:00 pm (it was a dinner and a dance) and by 8:30 pm we were exclusively dating and it was like none of those fights ever even happened. We had fought about everything you could ever imagine. Seriously. Picture 15 year olds fighting about who should be the main childcare provider or whether or not to will your home to a child.
We joke that we got all our fighting out of the way before we started dating because it's been almost 4 years and we haven't fought about anything. We've disagreed, yes, but no more screaming or anything :)0