I know this guy, and I think we're interested in each other... but I don't want to make a move. All of his ex girlfriends were gorgeous and exciting... I'm plain and boring. I feel like it'll be doomed from the start.
Have you ever been in a similar situation?
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Have confidence in yourself... everyone has something special about themselves, no matter who you are we all have unique life experiences that shape us. If you think you're plain and boring then I think you need to do some reflection on who you are and what makes you a cool person before entering into a relationship.
Maybe you offhandedly said that, but let me explain... I had self-confidence issues when I was younger. It was bad. I entered into a relationship and that was what gave me self-confidence... being told sweet things and feeling accepted by someone. When the relationship was over I lost my identity... you know what I mean? I felt like I had nothing and it hurt worse than it should have because I never had any confidence in myself to begin with.
I think you should definitely pursue this person, if you think he's interested in you then that says a lot. But please be aware of what I'm saying... I think you need to love yourself before getting involved with other people.0