I met this girl through OkCupid and we went out for drinks last Friday afternoon. After a few (non-alcoholic) drinks we went back to my place and ended up having sex. The sex was nice, but I have no interest in seeing her again as her body wasn't really that attractive to me and I don't see any long-term potential.
I'm kinda wondering what the protocol is in this situation. I've gone on online dates before and normally when there was no click we would just not contact each other anymore, but obviously this time there was at least some sort of connection. Then again, she hasn't contacted me either so is it cool to just let it slide? This is the first time I ever had sex on the first date, so I don't really know how to handle it. I don't want to come across as a dick by ignoring her, but texting her just to say I don't want to see her again is also quite dickish... what to do?
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I think is it douche-bag move to not say something and simply ignore her. I think you should be a stand up guy and simply tell her the truth. Tell her you had a good time, the sex was nice, but you didn't get a spark or feel a connection with her. Tell her you honestly tried, but you are just not attracted to her enough to continue. Tell her you thought she deserved to know so she doesn't waste her time wondering. No hard feelings!2