I'm 23, I've dated 2 guys, one is 24 and a virgin, the other one is 42 and said had 5 relationships. They have something in common: good person, don't lie, don't go out much, hard-working, being gentleman with me, intelligent and have a good job. Both of them got crazy about me within the first 2 weeks after first met. But the 24 year-old-one said "do you promise you will tell me everything and honest?" That time I was in a relationship with my ex so actually we just met as friend´s friend and it was not a date, he knows that but he told me he wants to be my boyfriend, and when he heard I was going to meet my boyfriend he was angry and said "why you didn't tell me the truth". After I broke up with my ex I met the 42-year-old one, not for dating because he is the son of my new landowner. He asked me to dance and during the dance he refused all the invitation from other boys. Finally I danced with a young boy and he was very very angry said "If you go out with me, then dance only with me". I am very uncomfortable with this.
Is this over control or honest?
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He's controlling. Dated lost of older men and they get possessive especially about girls who are a lot younger then them. Stick with guys around or near to your age. 42 is far too old for you. Take it from someone who knows. They come across as nicer because they have more experience. But if he's 42 and single you have to question why...2