Should you let a girl know a lot about you?

Before you ask her out? Should I become good friends with her and tell her everything about myself so she knows about me?

Or should I tell her very little about myself so she would be more interested?

  • Tell her anything you can about yourself. So she is good friends with you first.
    Vote A
  • Tell her very little. Let her be interested in finding out about you.
    Vote B
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What Girls Said 1

  • B, but only if you don't have some terrible secrets in which case, if she finds out about them, may turn her off.


What Guys Said 1

  • B, you can certainly have conversations with her and learn about each other but you don't want to over share. Over sharing too soon could drive her away and will take away from a lot of the talking points if/when you actually do date.