I met a nice guy recently but I am fresh off a bad breakup, so I am not looking to get involved with anyone right now. I explained it to him very nicely, told him it wasn't personal and that I am not emotionally available right now. He agreed and asked if we could stay in touch. Despite telling him this, he texts me constantly, gets possessive and jealous, calls me "baby" and keeps talking about waiting for me until I'm ready. I've talked to him a few times but he doesn't get it! I am getting very annoyed and don't want to be mean. What should I do?
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He's showing who he is. He doesn't listen, is not considerate of your already clearly stated needs, and is just plain being selfish. If you must be mean to make him listen, then do so. You can try ONE MORE TIME to remind him of where you're at, and if he keeps on, blast him. He really seems wrapped up in what he wants.1