I met a guy recently at a club salsa event and we were doing really intense bachata the whole night, it was more grinding then anything else. We both enjoyed it but it was embarrassing to me because we were dancing really scandalous. Anyway we ended swapping numbers and kissed a couple of times.
Yesterday was my first date with him. It was enjoyable but a little awkward like most first dates but we ended up leaving the park early because it started to rain. I asked him to drop me to the bus station because my dad kept calling and he didn't know I had gone out on a date. When I was about to leave the car, I leaned in to kiss my date on the cheek, but I guess he went to kiss my lips, so our kiss ended up being really clumsy lol and then I made the stupid mistake of telling him that at he was my first kiss.
He is in his mid-20's and I'm 20. He was a bit surprised but was nice about it and said it made him feel special and then hugged me but I don't know if he actually meant it or was just being nice.
How would you feel if a girl told you this given what took place at the club because we were really dirty dancing - there was a lot of rubbing, grinding and ass groping.
- You would feel happyVote A
- You would feel weirdVote B
- You'd want to get the hell awayVote C
- You want to see the resultsVote D
but what we were doing was more grinding then this..
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I voted for "weird" but that isn't it. More like, "I don't believe you." If you were letting me do all that shit on the first night, a total stranger, you think I'm going to believe you? Just what is this chick trying to prove by telling me that?
Personally, I'd say, "her actions tell me she's down, fuck it..." and I'd treat you like a play thing. Just good for fun, nothing else. You let me feel all over you the first night, then you lied about the kiss (my perception)... It doesn't point to anything good about you.
As for this guy, who really knows? Obviously there are some guys that are super liberal about things and don't give a shit... Maybe he'll still treat you with respect. Just watch out tho, you could run into a guy with the thinking pattern I described above.0
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