I'm talking to this one girl from my work. So far, it has been really frustrating because I can't tell if she's into me or if I'm over thinking it.
We've hung out three times: movie, billiards, and smoked in her room.
As the question title says, I am lacking in the experience.
We've had some real talk about her life, but I'm too worried about letting her know about that aspect of my life.
And since this is the case, it has made me very paranoid/unsure out of eagerness and inexperience about how she feels about me. I don't understand dating so it pisses me off when people just blow it off as a series of mind games because I'm trying to look for something real.
I want to be hopeful, but I don't want to get my hopes up and hurt myself. Not again.
Girls, how would you feel about a guy with my sort of history? Or lack there of?
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I actually find it really attractive. I hate guys that are players and had a million gf's and people that date just to date. Probably cuz I've only dated one guy.. It just hints at lack of commitment or rushing into things. so to me it just feels more valuable and special knowing that certain things we do together are firsts :)
So basically, I'd pick a guy with little-no experience over a then someone who's been in a ton of relationships (unless they somehow proved to me they were committed) any day!0