I like my friend well I guess you could class her as my best friend. I don't want to tell her because she might get creeped out or not want to be friends with me, but I do want to tell her so its not burning inside me and even if she's straight I still want to be friends with her. Help what should I do.
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My girlfriend who is straight dated a girl for quite a while. It didn't define her sexuality at all. But at such a young age, you've got hormones going crazy inside you. What is your gut feeling about your friend? I would definitely try to speak with a lesbian about this. Preferably someone that's quite a bit older even ten years older. You definitely know you have these feelings... It
doesn't make you gay, straight or bi-sexual at all. My only concern for you is at your age, kids are ruthless. Hormone raging adolescents are often very uncertain about themselves and trying to figure out who they really are. And quick to pass judgement or be nasty to others. I typically wouldn't advise someone to hide their feelings, but until you can talk with an older lesbian or even a counselor I think its best not to act on your feelings. There' s nothing wrong with feeling the way you do at all. Unless you have a strong gut feeling that your friend either feels the same or wouldn't take it the wrong way, find a few lesbian sites maybe. Post this question in a few different forums and if you can find a psychologist/counselor either on web or in your area that would be helpful. Look up adolescent counseling on sexuality. Some will do it free. If you can't find anyone, make up something to your parents that might get you some time alone with psychologist or psychiatrist. Either way, it takes a lot of courage to discuss this and you've taken a big step to talk about this. Cheers to you for having the courage to seek out advice! You will make the right decision!1