For example, if you're dating a guy who has done so many good things that you lost count, but does one bad thing, why is it so common that we only remember the bad thing rather than the good?
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Yeah we tend to do that and it's called fear. The fear of getting hurt again. But the good thing about having reason and a mind is that you can try and understand even the bad things and chose to live with them. The worst thing is to give into fear and let it ruin some really nice things.
There's this girl we were completely in love and did so many wonderful things with and for each other but we both hurt each other really badly too. I tried understanding but without her input I'm only speculating and I tried reaching out to her but she got scared of the whole thing and decided to run away from the problems. So because of fear everything that was nice got chucked away.
That's what fear does it's sad but true.1