We always text back & forth, and I just suddenly felt like asking him who else he was talking to... and he said to some of his friends (girls and boys). And I was like cool, what are their names? And thats where he got all nervous and mad, told me it was private.
I told him if he isn't hiding anything than he shouldn't be like that. And that if he asked me who I was talking to... girl or boy i would tell him.
Whats his deal? I guess he thought i was asking for the gurls name becaus i dnt trust him... bt thats not at all what i was thinkin... i was just curious cause if ur dating someone u want to know who thieir friends are... am i wrong about this?
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I use to be that way too. I've grown to realize that when you ask... you are showing him that you do not trust him. Treat him as you would treat your friends and he will appreciate and love you more for it. Just because you two are dating doesn't mean there should be no privacy for either one of you.
Since he was open to telling you that it was boys and girls then he's being open and honest. Badger him more and he will be afraid to tell you anything. That is when trouble starts.0