There's 2 girls in my life - one is my ex that wants to get back with me again, the other is a girl I'm trying to woo.
My ex knows about the other girl, and she's fine with it (mainly because she was the one who rejected me in the first place). She wants the other girl to know about the situation though, because she's also "another party in this situation, and so she deserves to know".
The other girl is clueless. I've been pretty naive, lovestruck, and focused on her. She's very traditional on bgr (no touching allowed), and dating is totally not her priority in life right now. She is interested in me though, and I guess I was pretty sincere and intense, because she's making time for me despite everything, including revealing what she thought about love and romance. But all the same, no touching allowed, and no dating. And also giving her time and space for her life. But all else is fine.
Now I haven't made my choice which girl to choose yet. I need a very long time with this other girl to wait for her to finally be ready to date. But I don't think I should tell her about my ex, because firstly, she probably hates on two-timing (even though we're not dating) and trust is very important to her. Telling her will ruin everything. And secondly, this decision should be mine to make alone. Am I wrong?
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I think if you're just contemplating to yourself, it can be kept to yourself. If you're actual dating/spending time with the both of them, they do deserve to know the truth. While you might not technically be dating this new girl you said yourself she's the traditional type. I'm sure the reason she isn't jumping into a relationship with you is to see how genuine you are and how serious about her you are.
If you have doubts that you can wait for this new girl that is something to consider. I STRONGLY agree with the other opinion. Exes are exes for a reason. Something happened and you just couldn't work it out. Personally when it's a situation like yours where you were the one rejected, I wouldn't give the ex the time of day over someone else. Like they can just have you now at your convenience... just rude.0