I recently turned 21 and it seems like no girl has ever really been into me. I tried the whole online dating scene and didn't have luck. I hear the phrase "you're not my type" all too often. I am a social guy but just a little shy if that makes sense. I have actually made moves and asked girls out but they just never seem interested. Could I maybe be going for the wrong type of girls? I mean I don't set out for supermodels, I would say I like the girl next door type. I don't find smokers attractive and I'm not into overweight chicks either. I am mostly attracted to white, Asian or sometimes latino girls. I tend to like girls with a similar personsality as me that I find cute or pretty. I like girls that are into music and art and even video games. I'm also a huge nature fanatic and I love animals as well so that's a major plus. I have a few female friends (not that that is bad) but it's weird cause they often tend to show interest in my friends, but nothing has ever happened with me. I definitely don't come off as gay so I'm not really sure what's holding me back. I'm not so tall, I'm only 5'8" but I don't think that would be a dealbreaker.
K so this is me: https://imgur.com/a/PJli7
Could it be that I look too young, not masculine enough etc? I'm not really sure what girls look for in a guy appearance-wise since taste varies but they seem to like the masculine type a whole lot more than what I am. Gay guys have complimented me a lot online, but that doesn't help seeing as I'm straight, haha. As you can see in the pictures, my facial hair looks pretty shabby and it doesn't grow out well. I have actually shaved since and am sticking to clean shaven though I hear I look extremely young, like 15. Is that unattractive or offputting? I mean I don't think I'm ugly, but worry that chicks don't dig me for that reason.
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There is so much more to dating than looks and you aren't ugly but I don't think you believe me because I've seen your photo in the past and rated it and you still think you are ugly. Have confidence - be a good person - keep yourself busy - always do something productive - focus on giving each person what they deserve - take care of others - take responsibility both for your happiness and that of other people - be conservative, prudent, responsible, kind, logical and formal at all times - you will get a girl.0