Me and my best friend are both just leaving college. I'm 18 next week and he's 18 now. His father is 47 and has been divorced from his mother for 18 months now. Neither me or him are out as gay.
One day, 6 months ago I went round to see if my friend was in but he wasn't, I asked his dad how he was and he invited me in for a drink. As we sat and chatted, he kissed me. Since then we've met up lots and I think I'm in love with him.
Despite the age difference, I love him and want to be with him but neither of us are openly gay and we wouldn't know how to tell my friend as he's quite manly and a little homophobic.
This might sound ridiculous but I need as much help as I can get please, help me!
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I'm speaking from experience here, ok?
Stop seeing him. It could screw things up with not only your best friend, but it could mess up things with your family and other friends too. Find someone your own age.
You might think you love him, but you probably just like the thrill of seeing him and the protection you get from seeing an older man. In the long run, it wouldn't work out. Trust me. Also, if you just tell your best friend that you're gay it would make things easier than telling him you're gay and you've been making out with his dad.
If you decide to take my advice (which you probably won't, because really you need to experience it yourself), then find yourself a nice guy who's your age. And is not related to your friend in any way.
Or, (and this is probably really wrong) are you attracted to your best friend in any way? Because you might only like his dad because he looks/acts like your best friend.
Hope I helped.0