We went on our first date after he invited me and we ended up splitting the bill. He offered a bit and obv I offered too and he accepted.
Second date I bought us both ice cream and then at dinner we split again.
Will our third date be the same?
We've been talking more 6 months and basically are like gf/bf.
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The guy should ALWAYS pay for the first date. If the girl is insistent on splitting the bill on the first date she is really saying thanks but no thanks. I am paying my half so I can get away clean and not feel any obligation to ever talk to you again. That part was for the guys. If he invited you to dinner he should pay. If you're going dutch all the time then you're really not bf/gf. There is no basically like gf/bf either. Either you are or you are not. You should have a conversation and be very clear. Ask if you are bf/gf and if you are then you are monogamous and your guy should treat you on your dates. If you want to mix it up occasionally and ask him out and make it your treat that is sweet and is a great way to keep things fresh but dutch all the time is screaming friends with benefits only. If that's what you want well that is your prerogative.0