Hey, sorry to be so flaky. Not only did I take the summer off specifically to spend as much time with my daughter as possible but I've also been seeing someone recently and didn't feel comfortable meeting up with you these last couple weeks.
Hope you understand and I'm just being honest. Not only was it great to see you and catch up but life is crazy and unpredictable so who knows what the future holds.
Talk soon and enjoy the sun! (Except for today:)
I can't believe he sent me this message! How would you feel if someone sent you this?
What Guys Said 4
Totally depends if you were sleeping with him or not.
Were you dating him, or not?
Sounds like he knows you were at least kinda interested in him, and he was afraid enough of fucking you that he didn't want to disrespect the woman he's started seeing.
He wants to keep you as a friend (and/or probably as a back-up woman if he's not seeing someone else/this one falls thru)
If you were fucking him/dating, then this is kinda a douche move, breaking it to you that he's been seeing someone else. If he wasn't, then you were projecting your hopes onto some guy without getting his agreement, or putting out for him.
From his message, it sounds more probable that you guys weren't doing anything (sexual or romantic), but that he felt some sexual tension. Which means, not his fault and quit being so crazy.
If that's not the case, then I retract the crazy bit - and am ready to assign him a certain amount of blame.0
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Find another man single one0
Id be like "Hmm. Notsureifsrs but mirinin others bods already. Mad?"0
What Girls Said 12
It seems he's fond of you but there's someone new on the horizon now whom he'd rather pursue and merely being honest with you about it. Nothing you can really do other than move on and just act like he's not that much of a loss on your part anyway. Although, he appears to wanna leave the door open for you in the event things dont work out with this new girl he's seeing. At least that's the impression I got when he mentions how unpredictable and crazy life is. Lastly, he knows its inevitable that the two of you will "talk soon" and am assuming its normally sunny where you live, "except for today (?)" lol. If that's not true then have no idea what he's referring to there... unless he's so arrogant to think that his message is going to leave you depressed and suicidal. So the best thing for you to do is simply move on and act as if this won't cause you to skip a beat.1
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He was being honest and respectful. Would you rather have him string you along? I see how it could be hurtful if he was someone you had feelings for but I think he handled this awkward situation quite nicely.2
I would obviously feel upset if someone sent that to me, especially if i was interested in him.. However, he did say it in a really honest and respectful way, so you should respect that. Because usually men would just not mention anything, throw you off and just ignore you. I think you should respond telling him that you understand and that it was nice seeing him too. However don't delete him and stress about it because hey, his 'so called' new person that he's seeing might not even work out. Just go with the flow and see how it goes1
I would probably feel a bit insulted, for I would have thought with the "It was great to see you and catch up' deal perhaps it was going Somewhere. However, with the message sent, his 'Odd' Honesty attached, it tells me he is Not into me, but Into Other Priorities such as 'My daughter' And------Been seeing someone recently.
Chalk it up as someone who was just this ship in the nite, who decided to set sail and is now just a fair weather friend. xx0
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he's a user, he was leading you on and was seeing other women until he found one he liked more than you and then lets you know by a lame message. he's a creep and i'd definitely not 'talk soon' .. ever. But on a plus side, at least you didn't end up in a relationship with this douche! Go have some fun of your own girl!1
he's a douche. Your 2nd in line move on1
Forgive me. Maybe I don't understand. But I don't see anything wrong with that message1
Well, if you're his girlfriend or spouse, or something along those lines, he's a douche. That would be the first thing to come to mind. The last line "except for today" sounds extremely mocking.1
I'd just say, "Okay, text me if anything changes."0
i don't think he's THAT into you. he may like you as a friend, but that's it0
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