my ex boyfriend was a dick when we broke up nearly a year ago and has tried to reach me a few times in the past two months but I haven't answered. I don't know what he wants, but I don't feel ready to handle it if he says something mean to me. we had an amazing time together, but he had commitment issues leftover from a previous relationship, big issues. I don't know if he's better now or what he wants. I kind of only want to respond if he explicitly tells me he's sorry instead of casual how are you/whats up stuff.
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I know you said the answer might make you mad if it isn't the one you want, but that's life? Can't always get or hear what you want. I'd say the best thing to do is just respond. But don't say something like straight off "what are you after or what do you want?" Just talk as if they were the average joe on the street, then the real reason he wants contact may come to light just stay sharp, when people are saying something but not saying it directly may take a little longer granted but if you don't wanna ask then do that. But in my opinion I'd chat get more of an idea or I'd drive myself mad with the wondering. .. then think of something that probably isn't so. Good luck :)0
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