I broke up with my ex in early June over arguments mostly. So to get to the point basically I wanted her back about 2 weeks later. She had already moved on some what and began dating someone new. At first she was saying that she wasn't going to leave the other guy and all this stuff. I kept on trying for about 2 weeks persistently and point is we ended up hanging out and she cheated on the other guy with me 3 times...I am not happy about that but I really love her and she said she loves me too but it seems like she is hesitating because she thinks we will argue again and not be happy. I told her that I am willing to make this work and not going to give up. Then she said she was going to make a final decision. she ended up picking him. I struggled with it a couple days. I went out to the movies with a old friend and my ex was so jealous and she said I still feel like we are together and I love you and want to be with you. The next day I went with her to a wake to support her. She ended up kissing me many times, holding my hand and hugging me throughout the entire day. It feels like we are together but she is still with the other guy technically. I want her to break it up and choose me obviously. What should I do?
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Don't give her an ultimatum. That's the worse thing you can do. 9 times outta 10 you won't like their answer. But what you can do is tell her all that stuff you just told the free world lol. Tell her it's not fair for you to feel like you're in a relationship loving her all by yourself. And tell her if she really does love you then she'll do everything possible to make it work like you are. But it seems like she "having her cake and eating it to" and the only reason she is, is because you're letting her. She's gotten used to having you on the side because you let her. You staying around is training her that she can be with him and no matter what you're just gonna run your mouth about it but you'll stay too. If she doesn't pick you right away try leaving... As much as you might wanna believe it maybe you're not right for each other...0