I go to a 84% white school , and this white girl told me that because im black than I won't have a chance at dating someone. And all the black boys go with the white girls. I'm kinda emo so im not ghetto nor am I dark skinned. Also im not crushing on anyone at this time but I did find some attractive. So is what she saying true?
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I have a friend that follows that of which you described. She didn't have any problem dating someone white, or black or anyone, really. Even without her as an example, I don't see why that would be difficult. Like, personally, and no offense what so ever, I'm not so interested in girls with a darker skin tone compared to those with a lighter. However, that didn't stop me from having a huge crush on a girl friend of mine who is black. Even if it isn't my preference, in the end it doesn't matter because it's the person that makes you like them, and not their appearance be that person black, asian, inidian, white, whatever, it's the person and their personality and how that person makes you feel comfortable and smile.
Just because that school is mostly white doesn't mean you have no chance at all. It truly depends if people know who you are and accept you and like you.
People tend to put too much thought into appearances when what really matters is the person themselves.1