My boyfriend calls me a bitch too sometimes. This never happened in the beginning of our relationship... He first did it when we fought on the phone and he would get really mad and tell me he doesn't love me, he wishes he never loved me, he hates me and that im a bitch. After he says these things he tells me its the truth. Then he says sorry but i never accept it even though were still together. Then, he does it all over again. Once i left him for it and he apologized. I really thought he wouldn't do it again because i would never break up with my boyfriend for something unless it really hurt me (i thought he knew this too). He did do it again and keeps doing it. It feels even worse now. Every night we fight because he thinks i dont love him, when i do love him so much :( i try so hard to show him but its not enough. One day i was so hurt about all this and i told him and he thought i was starting a fight and he called me a bitch and told me to fuck off and threw my things to the door. I know none of this is right, he seems to have issues with himself he needs to solve but how do i tell him? I still love him so much but he's pushing me away by this. I just want the man i fell in love with back.
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You have two options.
1. End things.
2. Put up with it.
Its not going to change. Its become a habit and clearly the namecalling is a sign that he doesn't respect you. The insecurity over your feelings is irrational.
Its never easy to end a relationship with someone you care about, but sometimes its for the best.0