There is a common misconception in the world that 'Nice guys always finish last' with women. I believe this is not true at all. The truth is, nice guys never finish! They're pushed out of the race midway by the stereotypical 'bad guys'!
Agree or disagree? Both men and women are most welcome to vote and answer.
P. S. - Before you start pulling the 'nice guys are boring' crap, let me make it clear that I'm talking about the genuinely good guys who have great personalities and not boring at all, but are still shunned for just being 'nice'.
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Most Helpful Girl
Well it depends what you want. I agree to some extent. But it's young people in general, not just women but men also like "bad girls" when they're young or immature. Young people usually don't care about the future, and the "bad girls/boys" are a thrill of the moment. As you age, you realize that sometimes life isn't just thrills, and the "nice" girls or guys finally begin getting attention. Our tastes in people change, and some people just take longer to develop. Nothing wrong with that, why force someone to change or force someone to be in a relationship with you? It'll just end badly.
Now, if you want to grab as many or the most attractive women as you can, then you probably aren't as nice as you think and could use some maturing as well. This isn't meant to be an insult, because there's nothing shameful about maturing and growth.
Genuine nice guys and girls, nice people, don't find relationships easily, but when they do get into relationships, they usually find their soulmate. And to me, it's better to find your soulmate than collect as many numbers. I prefer relationships that last for ever or for never, I don't date just to "date." I like meaningful companions.0
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Most Helpful Guy
The problem is that nice guys never try hard or keep their dating profile for everyone. I. mean many nice guys are picky and when they don't get the girl they ultimately liked , it creates severe disheartening atmosphere for him which let's himself down.
Bad guys will try any girl plus they tend to keep dating many number of women. It's not like they are not rejected but if you are hitting on 3 girls at a time, then at least one will respond?
This is how it works.
Also nice guys must only learn to become confident and dominating on women. We would surely win then.1