this is what she said to me "You're a guy.. there are many guys out there that haven't been in a relationship or just aren't interested in it. 30 years or older is the prime for guys, but for girls it's a different story... older guys get younger girls.. that's usually the case."
Why is that usually the god damn fuckin' case? is it wrong that i hate, despise, loathe reality for being the way it is? it pisses me off so god damn much i feel like hurting somebody?
Because me being a guy, i hate how i don't get to enjoy my youth the way girls do, because after all girls are valued for their youth far more than guys are, girls just have to be young and just exist, work on their physical appearence thats all god damn it.
Guys have to have status, be very social and outgoing, have a big social circle, be popular or cocky in a funny kind of way, be very confident, have a life, be a leader instead of a follower, they have to be a winner or just have a winner mentality, have their shit together, have a career, stability, etc.
Because me personally i'm not looking forward to my 30's, this is why: "I see twenty something couples everywhere. I see a twenty something guy with a nice twentyish young women. I think those years slipped right by for me. Why should I continue another 20+ years alone?"
Thats why, because i didn't get the right amount of experience in my teens and 20's that most guys get, so thats why i don't care if guys supposedly age like wine.
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Girls that young who rule out guys their age and search for guys 30+ are searching for a new father and view their role in a relationship as a daughter. But just being in the 30's isn't enough. We got plenty of bums in their 30's who have no job and play video games 8+ hours a day.
Those girls don't want those guys. They want the guys who have a house, a car, and a high paying job so they can fuck their way in and mooch off of him. Suddenly all her clothes, toothbrush, combs, and stuff are all in his place and he doesn't mind because she keeps fucking him. That's all it really is. These types of girls described are just finding guys who are already established so they don't have to work hard anymore. There's girls online who outright state that they wish to give up their studies and just be a stay-at-home-mom. So they're just looking for these older guys so they can stop "working hard" and take it easy.
These girls described don't see guys as human beings. These are girls to be avoided as they'll be the ones to fake being on birth control to get pregnant and force the guy into a relationship he may not want to be in.
Find girls who have character. A lot of girls were raised a lot better than the types of girls your friend is describing.2