My boyfriend and I got into a huge argument last night about the fact that I'm not on birth control. He had threatened our relationship if I don't start taking something in a week. He has always accepted the fact that I don't take anything until last night it became a huge issue out of the blue. I had asked him to come see me today so we could talk things through rather than via text message. He declined my request and when I asked why he simply replied I don't know. Do you think he's contemplating on just breaking up with me? I offered to give him some space and he said it's not about that. He's not replying to me anymore and I'm not sure what to do. I've been home all day crying and thinking of different scenarios of myself just breaking up with him. But I think I should give the diaphragm (type of birth control the two of us have talked about) a chance because I don't want to lose him. But I feel if I do that I'm giving up my happiness because it's not what I want. I want to make him happy but I don't think I deserve to be miserable.
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Well birth control is a tricky subject and there are still questions that remain.
Are you taking it to go unprotected? Because I still wouldn't recommend that for STD safety purposes.
Also, do you have adverse side effects to birth control? Not being 18 I don't imagine you would know if you do or not.
It honestly just sounds like this guy wants you for sexual purposes as it is so I don't think you should even consider seeing him anymore as it is. It sounds like he just wants sex and is looking for someone to do it with without a condom. If you continue to see him I think he sounds like one of those guys who will have you back on this site complaining that all he wants to do is screw.0