I was dating a guy that I think may have been trying to manipulate me into sleeping with him.
He knew I was a virgin and inexperienced but he would push for physical stuff. I didn't have sex but we did get to kiss and he touched me a lot, literally everywhere. He even rested his hand on my underwear one time.
He didn't directly make me do anytbing but he gradually worked his way up and made me think it was ok. I was very uneasy at first.
He would tell me how amazing I was, how compatible we were, how attractive I am, how much he liked me, how much he would like to date me, etc.
When I moved home he stopped showing much interest. Very little texting and even no effort on my birthday.
He said before he wouldn't see anyone else until we began dating.
Odd thing- randomly said we weren't exclusive. Said he didn't want me to miss Out on opportunities.
He would give me opposite ends of the spectrum- very interested and not. Pushed off commitment and said it was because of school.
Said he wanted to date me and two days later said dating Was a bad idea because we were too different. Told me he would see other girls if he found a more compatible one.
I told him he led me on and he didn't apologize. Said I was attacking him and that I hurt him. But didn't acknowledge what he put me through.
I was upfront from the beginning, so I don't buy that I was confusing. Said I mistreated him, etc.
He was my first kiss though and I regret kissing such a tool :/
He did play me right? I'm not crazy?
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Yes you're probably right in assuming he just wanted sex. Good for you though with trying to only go as far as your comfortable with because forced sexual acts aren't cool and shouldn't be tolerated. You deserve better.0