I have been dating a 46 year-old male attorney for 15 months who spends 5-6 nights a week at my house.
He shops for food somewhat regularly (couple bags at a time), but has not contributed to rent at all. He has paid a couple power bills but that's it. (He still maintains his own rental) I lost my job last October and have been living on my savings. I am pretty traditional and feel like he should be showing me that he can be the provider. He says he wants to marry me too.
I know he still has school loans and doesn't make much money. He doesn't wine and dine me whatsoever.
Do you all think he's just mooching? Am I being taken?
- dump him?Vote A
- wait and see?Vote B
Most Helpful Girl
Dump him. I'd understand if he were younger, he could be experiencing some difficulties in growing financially wise and that's understandable. But a man that age, if he weren't mooching, he would try his best to support you as best as he can because men feel powerful and manly when they can support a woman. You need to get rid of him because he is just blocking your ways. If you two don't go out and have a good time, preferably romantic dinners now and then, he probably doesn't even like you. Someone who did like you wouldn't treat you this way and you deserve better. So please, send him packing and change your lock.1