How can I meet a guy in college without being desperate?

I start community college in a few days and how can I start a relationship with a guy there without me being needy and desperate? Should I go up to them or wait for them to come up to me? Is it ok to talk to a guy during lunch? Where in college is right to talk to them?


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  • Change your attitude. You shouldn't be entering college with the idea of finding yourself a boyfriend, as someone would look for a tool they needed. Go there with the goal of making good friends and meeting people. Then, when you find someone you like, things may find they're own path, but don't push things, that never works.


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