I'm 21. I work as a stock clerk, but obviously, I'm looking for a better job. I'm in school, I have over 60 credits, but I'm not quite sure of what the f***k I wanna do, so I'm just jumping into an English degree, and taking tests for city/ federal jobs to have under my belt. I'm also doing art on the side and planning to open a small company. I'm not a club guy. Now, I also still live at my parents' house. Not that I don't appreciate it, it's just, s**t, my age, you think I'd be a little further in life, y'know? Mostly my own fault. Anyway, yeah, friends keep going on and on about my dating life, and how I need a committed relationship, since all I've ever had were flings. Now, you know, I'm not picky, but I like the girl to be older, by about 2, 3, maybe 4 years. And not fat or crazy. But see, the stage of life I’m in, I’m a loser. These women have degrees, REAL JOBS, have their own place, some even have their own f***n' houses. And believe me, I WANTED a committed relationship. I wanted somebody I can grow with, share our lives. I could learn from and teach. So, I tried online dating, since I don't have much time to get out-out, and I noticed, y'know, these people wanna date a doctor. But honestly, I'm beginning to feel that relationships are based on getting what you want outta each other. Money, sex, status, etc. So, yeah, what I did was, I just started hooking dates up with more than one girl, some older, some younger. All of which I lied to either my age, level of education, my job, etc. I had to; being honest f****d me, in past relationships. I knew it won't last, but I figured if anything gets serious, I may as well enjoy the relationships I have while I have it. So, yeah, I set dates up with them. Then, a couple of days before I was supposed to meet up with the first one, I got into a horrible accident, that I'm lucky to be in one piece. Still in shock. But anyway, my friends, keep going on about how I need to date one, and that this is karma.
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You date through online dating sites? Out of the people I've known that do online dating-only one person ever met someone that hadn't fudged majorly about themselves. That's out of five relatives and three friends. My Aunt even got stuck with a guy that proclaimed he was divorced. Turns out he was still married AND had three other women under his belt affiliated through the dating site she was with. If HE wasn't bad enough for her-she then met another guy on a different site that turned out to be a repeat criminal that was on probation when he met her. You know what he proclaimed himself to be? A lawyer!!! It's why I never agree to get into anything with guys off the internet that I've never known in real life. They just aren't real enough. Considering you haven't listed lying as badly as the two booboos my Aunt ran into-I would like to think it's not entirely wrong. It's not honest-but it's not THAT bad either. People should expect that from others as people are always saying everyone lies anyways. Just don't fudge to the point of no return.1