I've been dating this guy for almost 2 months now. We get along great and I find him insanely attractive. We text each other everyday and meet up about twice a week. We've stayed in the same bed on more than one occasion and things get a bit heated... However he keeps saying he won't have sex with me until he's sure that I would be a potential girlfriend. He says that sex complicates things and he doesn't know what he wants ie. to commit or not.
He is definitely not a virgin. Things are going so well and we have a lot of sexual chemistry but when it comes to the crunch he leaves me hanging big time :( not that I'm just in it for sex but I really want us to take that next step?
So my question is why won't he have sex with me?
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He prefers to play it safe. For he is well aware that if he engages in sex with you and subsequently decides against committing to you, he will likely hurt you. In other words, if he is texting you and spending time with you regularly, then perhaps his thinking is, adding sex to the equation would likely implicate an intent to commit to you. Thus, he feels that it will be in the best interest of you both to wait.0