I have a boyfriend but I'm falling for someone else
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No, of course you are not a bad person for feeling something for someone else. You cannot control how that happens. The 'good' or 'bad' part only can be judged on a person's actions. If you pursue the second relationship without telling your boyfriend, then a think a lot of people will put that into the 'bad person' category.
The thing you want to ask yourself is why are you falling for someone else? What is it about that person that appeals to you? Is it that you want them, or that you are finding your bf doesn't treat you the way you want to be treated? Even if you don't go for the 'new' guy, the fact that something seems to be missing from your current relationship, enough to let you feel this way for someone else, could be an indication that something is not right fundamentally, and it could be an early warning sign that you will run into bigger problems later.0