We met online, first date went for drinks in the afternoon, then corresponding over e-mail/text for about 1 mo, nearly daily, as I was on vacation and then he went on ~3 wk vacation/work in EU.
Our 2nd date, we went for drinks again for 5 hours and he got something to eat (I wasn't hungry. He paid for me).
He asked me out again for last weekend, and suggested as written above. Did he give me the option of a movie at home or the theater, to test if I was "ready" to sleep with him? As it turned out, this past weekend, I was studying/too busy to meet up, but he mentioned watching a movie both Saturday and Sunday by himself and was telling me a little about the movies.
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It may not be sex on his mind, per se, but he is putting the option out there to see if you are interested in being more physical. At home implies sitting together on the couch. That may lead to sex, it may not, but it most certainly will lead to some form of cuddling at least, probably a bit of a make out session, and for sure more than would happen in the middle of a movie theater. So, his end goal may be 'and it could end with sex!' but that isn't necessarily what he is expecting to happen. It's just that it would move things along faster. It's always easier to get to third base after you've been to second base. And easier to go home after you've been to third. So the soon you start rounding the bases, the better.
However, he is being pretty cool by putting the decision in your hands. He is not rushing you, so he gets some points for that. If you are apprehensive about how far things may go, then go to the theater. If you want to get more physical, watch a movie at his place. You can always through out a caveat like "I'll watch it at your place if you promise not to try to bang me on the couch or something lame like that" which should slow down his base running a bit and let you decide how far you want to go.0