How often do you/should you speak to the person you're pursuing?

I usually wait for him to message me. We've been chatting today to make plans for our first date this weekend and then he messaged me tonight to ask how my day was. I'm not big on long, drawn out online conversations so I just asked him how his was and left it at that when he replied 'good thanks'. Is that ok? I hope he doesn't think I'm vague or uninterested.


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  • I would give more than two word answers. That's a sure fire way to get to the uninterested section.
    You don't have to write essays to each other, and I do agree on not having long online conversations because when you do meet up you'll have nothing to talk about, but a few short conversations doesn't hurt anything.


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