i know it may seem shallow, but then does it make sense?
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If you're just complimenting her, no. But to hit on her kind of is. I lost 75lbs and a couple guys I liked before were all of a sudden interested. One of them even hired at wanting to date. We were friends when I was bigger and I had admitted to having feelings and he admitted to caring about me but not being attracted. Totally cool, attraction is necessary, but I knew it was my weight. I got a very physically demanding job and dropped the pounds and he hinted to his new found interest. I told him I loved him because he was one of my best friends, but that because I wasn't good enough before, I can't date him now. So we're still friends and it is what it is. That's all on her to decide though.0