This guy dating a friend of mine:
-He doesn't seem quite as concerned with looks, which is always nice.
-However, things started getting screwy when they started dating. She offered to pay for the date, which I thought was sweet and very much like my friend to do. When I asked him about it, he seemed thankful enough, but I was blown back by his insistence that "its what she SHOULD do if it was any decent date." Why is that? "She needs to prove she isn't a gold-digger". Umm and that doesn't make YOU one?
I mean, I personally think money shouldn't be something your relationship is about, let alone the first freaking date. And to prove she isn't a gold digger? "It shows she's interested" umm okay. Shouldn't you be trying to show this too?
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If its the first date and he INVITED her, then i think its okay for him to pay. But if there are more dates then I think splitting the bill is only fair.2