If you're with someone and you speak with them a couple times a month, is this normal? Like they tell you they like you and stuff but rarely speak to you (reasons seem legit). I'm not talking about the occasional leave of absence but a constant (been a year and ongoing) type of thing. And s/he expects you to stay with them in like manner for another 2 or more years. Note: you've talked to this person 24/7 when you first met. Would you stay with such a person?
In my opinion if the person liked you, they'd find excuses to talk to you, not give you excuses why they couldn't. Online relationships are all about communication and when there's very little of even that, there's not much holding you to that person. It just falls apart.
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Online dating is unreliable and people lie who they can be. I personally think it is dangerous and you hear all the time about scams and murders from dating sites. I know I'm being scary.
In your case you should ask her out then, in the day and somewhere not isolated to get a clearer definition of this girl (if she even is).0