So if you like a girl find her attractive. Of course people want sex anyone does. But would you want to have sex and feel it out before you make a decision to commit or just feel it out and if you like them you'll commit and dont mind not having sex before the relationship?
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I, personally don't. Infact I find that sex can complicate a relationship that has a lot of potential, so I try to keep sex tacked on the back end of a relationship. After all, when a relationship is bad, sex usually starts to go bad as well.
Just trying to juggle getting to know someone and learning about who they are as a person, and planning dates and things like that on top of juggling sex is just too much stress for a new romance.
Once everything is stable and secure and comfortable, then I move on to sex. At every step of the way you are increasing your commitment, but at no point are you so committed that you can't leave a relationship.
If sex is a deal breaker, than tell the person that it's important. That way, they will understand when you leave if the sex is bad. If they don't understand or agree with sex being important, and you find it to be a deal breaker, that's a bad sign anyways.
How other guys do it I'm not sure. I don't date guy.1