First of all, I wanna say that I'm NOT the overly protective, controlling type, and I don't usually do this, but we've been dating for a few weeks and it seems to me that he's the type of guy to be very protective of who his girl talks to and if guys are hitting on her, so since he's been protective of me, I want him to know that I expect the same loyalty and honesty from him in return. He's been talking to this girl alot, he favorite's her selfies, comments on her pictures, she comments on his too, etc. She knows he's taken but I feel like she gives him constant extra attention, which means he must be giving her the same, right? Btw, this is all from social media, I know they haven't met in person but it still makes me uncomfortable seeing the way they talk with eachother, back and forth... and I will admit I'm jealous, however I'm not insecure, I just want to know why he has to give another girl so much attention when he seems happy and satisfied enough with me. Especially cause we just started dating and we get along so well with eachother, and I know his feelings are strong for me.
I wanna tell him it bothers me, but I dont know what to say considering I dont really know the girl, and I dont want it to sound like I'm "confronting" him either..
Help me out please?
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Why do you worry so much if she's jsut an online friend? It's not like she can steal him away from you. I wouldn't ask him to do that, simply because no matter how hard you try, you will sound obsessive and controlling. And also quite immature, why would he not be allowed to talk to girls..1
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