What would you tell someone with less experience to help hem have a more successful relationship?
Most Helpful Girl
this is my best advice, but also the hardest to grasp.
don't ever try to change a guy, and you know what i mean by change. not small things like his living habits if he's lazy then get him to do his laundry or something. i mean big changes. you'll always have a gut feeling if it'll work out/if it's right or not. trust that gut feeling. no matter how strong or little, if it's always there then trust it.
don't be that girl that tries to change the guy, like if he's a party animal don't try to change that. it's exhausting, you'll put up with a lot and in the end they'll resent you for it, if they don't break up with you for it. even if the change is good for them, remember, IF THEY DON'T WANT THE HELP, YOU CAN'T HELP THEM.
my best advice, i went through this with my ex boyfriend, it was an awful relationship i don't know how i even got through it lol. but i'm telling you, 1) trust you gut feelings and 2) never try to change someone. every girl wants to be that girl that changes the guy, it's not that simple and it's not worth it.0
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