So you all know the saying "nice guys finish last"... well that seems to have been the story of my life thus far. I mean, I'm not shy or quiet, but I'm more intellectual than sports minded, and I'm only 5'7". It sounds great and all to hear "Don't change yourself to try to impress other people. You'll find someone who loves you just the way you are." But in reality, only 1 girl out of the 7 that I've dated actually loved me the way I was, and even that didn't last forever.
What I just want to know is, if women want to be respected and treated right, why do so many of them pick the stereotypical "jock" or "trashy/rough guy" over the "nice guy"? Is there really any hope for "nice guys" or are we just going to HAVE to make ourselves be more athletic and type-A to get the attention of the ladies?
- I would date a "nice guy"Vote A
- I'm not interested in "nice guys"Vote B
Most Helpful Girl
what is the difference between a nice guy and a jerk? while the nice guy has all the good qualities he lacks THE CONFIDENCE i'm not talking about over self esteem but the good amount is just , girls are fragile and insecure , so thus the man needs to be waay confident !
Other than that nice guys have it all, if he's cute and has a decent job that sounds even better!
Know one thing :when a woman wants to get married she wants the nice guy , a prick is what teens want !!! so don't worry that much , and have fun with your life!
Intellectual is deep , and beautiful !!!1