Dating this guy a month and a bit months.. the other day he was asking me where he stands because it disn't seem like I liked him anymore.. i replied telling him I'm not sure why it matters because when I was interested, he wasn't bothered.
I got no reply..
I text him earlier basically saying he needs to make a decision about what he wants..
He replied telling me works got mega busy and that although he thinks I'm a lovely girl, he doesn't think he can commit.. he then said he may be wrong but he doesn't wanna mess me around
Are guys black and white? Is this a genuine reason or do you reckon there's something else? Be brutal, I need it!
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Well, I think he's not even sure you like him... After he asked where he stands it kinda sounded like you were brushing him off and didn't really like him anymore, or you're upset with him at least. Then if your conversation moves to commitment, of course the answer's not going to be that favorable. He's not even sure you still like him. Also, you wanted honesty so... It really sounded to me like your response to him was a passive aggressive dig. "I replied telling him I'm not sure why it matters because when I was interested, he wasn't bothered". Maybe he was reaching out to you then, and with the way you shut him down... he's not going to deal with that.0