I can't take the guy I like seriously anymore? Does that mean I have to break up with him?

basicially, we've been dating for 4 months, and a month ago he told me that he wanted to be exclusive, and I agreed, and now I found out that he's lying about his whereabouts. I don't know if he's cheating or staying with some girl or what it is, but he's definitely lying, and now I can't take him seriously anymore. Everytime I've pointed out that he lies, he's just "oh, that must be a mistake, or he just gets defensive". The problem is that I don't have hard core evidence.

I haven't been texting him for the past 4-5 days even though he tries to initiate a conversation, but I'm kinda disgusted and I dont know what to do. I don't want to talk to him about my day, when I can't take him seriously.

What do i Do?


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  • Sounds like the trust is broken, and you have to break up.

  • just tell him what you said in your 2nd paragraph


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